Monday, November 25, 2013

I got the jitterbug: Forever 21s Statement-Making Letter Print Dress



Letter Print Dress in Size 3X

When I peeped this totally rad Statement-Making Letter Print Dress at Forever 21, it instantly put the boom boom into my heart. In fact, I started to hum Wham's 1984 hit "Wake me up before you go-go". The song reminds me so much of this time and the big bold letter and number prints both men and woman were wearing. Immediately I started to think about the accessories that would make this outfit a complete modernized 84 flash back.


In order to rock the look hard, I knew my outfit would need some neon pink. It worked out perfect that I have pink hair. I loved neon pink so much back in the day. In 1984, I was a mere 10 years of age and Madonna was my everything. Material girl was released the same year as Wake me up before you go-go and I must have watched the material girl video a million time. Madonna in that pink dress...GORG!!



What goes better than bright purple with neon pink? NOTHING! My legs are bathed in We Love Colors  Violet plus size Nylon/Lycra tights size E. We love colors tights are by far my favorite. The colors are always beautiful and never turn opaque when stretched over my legs. They are long enough, but don't tend to bag in the crouch. I have stockpiled a bunch in my favorite colors and hope Santa brings me more.


To complete my look I added some modern touches. Leather and Studs and Spikes, OH MY! Everywhere you look this season you will find these three accents. I find adding these items makes your outfit look just the little bit more bad ass. I'm all for bad ass. My boots were from Torrid last season. You can pretty much find spiked boots everywhere now. My glasses are also from Forever 21. My belt was a gift from a friend and my headband was ordered off Ebay for $1.96!!

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Push Th' Little Daisies....Fat Girl Flower Power.




I can't help, but think of Ween's Push Th' Little Daisies every time I see a daisy. It's delightful and a curse at the same time. Push is one of those songs that get stuck in  your head. While it's fun and quirky for the first 20 minutes or so, after a while you just want to pull your hair out. I apologize in advance to anyone who clicked the video above. Ahhhh the 90s...Your coming back with a vengeance aren't you.

 



This month's Ahead Of The Curve blog hop themes "Big girls can't wear prints?" I say, "screw that noise!" Big girls can wear anything they damn well please and look good wearing it. I think most of us have fallen victim to believing the fashion rules handed down by our mothers or grandmothers. At least I feel most women my age have. It took me a long time to break away from these rules and learn to rock something that wasn't black. I have spent the better part of my life cloaked in only black, trying to hide every roll and bump. I always told myself , "Stina you only like black because you are goth" *Cough* Poppycock! While I have always lived and love a darker spookier lifestyle wearing only black clothes really was mostly about hiding my body. After all goths can wear red and purple too:) HA!




So here I stand older and much wiser kicking forth some daisy print fierceness. If you had told me five years ago I would be wearing a primary colored daisy print dress, I would have thought you'd lost your mind. Today I'm still myself all goth spooky, but I'm wearing what I want and not giving two eff's what anyone else thinks. 


Talk about a 360!! I just took a little inventory of my blog and there's no all black outfits! Huh! What is going on? Sure, I have many photos that convey my love for the macabre, but it doesn't have to be about hiding my body in black anymore. The whole thing is very freeing. Hold up, I think I might be having a moment of enlightenment here...


FREEDOM!!!



For anyone that might be interested my dress is from eShakti. While this dress is no longer in stock you can get oodles of amazing dresses on this site. I order from them all of the time and love that you can have every item customized for only $7!!! $7 to have something fit my body perfect? Deal, sold. They carry size 0-36W.
If you are new to eShakit you can use code LILYNZDG at checkout to receive  $30 off your first order. They have so many nice pieces for the holidays. Plus almost all their dresses have pockets. Woot!

I wanted to finish off my post today with images of beautiful curvy women in floral print. Some of these women I know. Others are just photos of women I found online. Each and every one of these dolls are beaming with beauty and confidence. I love all this flower power!!!



 













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We are a collective of plus size bloggers coming together to post on the same subject. This month we each have written a post responding to the oft heard point of view “Big Girls Can’t Wear Prints?” so check them out by clicking on each link: